“Jobs and Bosses are Evil”

Before I was even out of college, I developed a deep-seated passion for getting rid of my J.O.B. I salivated, I imagined, I fantasized about getting rid of my job and being FREE.

Today I’m a free man. I’m not “retired” (which is not really my definition of freedom anyway) but I am the captain of my own ship.

If someone says, “Jobs and bosses are evil” I agree, but I disagree.

I disagree, but I agree.

Because there’s a hidden advantage to having a job – especially if it’s the right kind of job:

What could be better than learning on somebody else’s dime?

Let me tell you about my last Dilbert Cube job.

I was sales & marketing manager at an industrial company. They didn’t have a lot of cash to throw around and they didn’t give me a whole lot of rope.

But I did have to make sales.

I had to convince my bosses at what I wanted to do was going to work, then I had to do it, then I had to work. I got a TON of experience I could have gotten nowhere else and almost every single “phone consulting” day that I have with various members, there’s a conversation that somehow draws from that experience. Whether it’s from being a rep or a sales manager or even engineer.

My bosses taught me a great deal about many things. (Even things like what kind of boss I never ever ever want to have again.) Found out what Toxic People walk like, talk like, look like and smell like before, during and after you discover they’re Toxic.

But even the most Toxic boss I ever had was still a blessing. You know why? I loved that job until Mr. Toxic started tightening the screws on me. And man did he ever tighten them. The last year of working for Mr. Toxic was sheer misery. His M.O. was to slice my fingers off one joint at a time.

Prior to my boss going bad (he did actually “go bad” and I can tell you the day it happened, but I’ll save that story for another day) I loved that job. It was scary and challenging but in another way it was comfortable and friendly.

My boss going bad strengthened my resolve to get free and go do my own thing. Had I not been working for him, I might still be working for somebody else right now. In a Dilbert Cube. Under buzzing fluorescent lights.

Instead of sitting here in my library with music playing, writing a newsletter for my Renaissance Club members, looking out the window at the autumn leaves.

It honestly takes crushing pressure to get most of us human beings to change. We all seek comfort zones and we stay in them unless and until something becomes so uncomfortable that the comfort zone isn’t really comfortable at all.

Then we decide to seek wisdom and make changes and re-invent ourselves.

In Part 2 I’ll tell you about the marketing education I got at my J.O.B.

Perry Marshall

Comments on “Jobs and Bosses are Evil” »

  1. September 14

    George @ 6:39 am

    Wow! It’s like your reading my mind, Perry.

    I’m going through this exact phase in my career right now.
    The last year in my current J.O.B. Kinda scarey, but exciting at the same time!

  2. September 14

    Kevin ONeill @ 7:52 am

    You are absolutely right Perry! Everything that happens to us- even the “Bad” can be used to learn from and ultimately help us to get to another place in our lives. Sometimes it just takes being sick and tired of being sick and tired to take action and make a change!

  3. September 14

    Peter (IMC) @ 8:00 am

    Perry,

    This comfort zone “problem” exists in everybody. How do you deal with your employees and their comfort zones?

    • September 14

      Perry @ 9:08 am

      Peter,

      Employees can only be stretched so far and they need to want to be stretched. It has done me a lot of good to know the strengths / weaknesses of my players and shape their job to fit their personality. I’m glad some people like having a nice job to go to and aren’t constantly trying to ‘escape.’

      Perry

  4. September 14

    Josh Boxer @ 8:45 am

    Perry,

    You hit it on the dime every time. Through every adversity whether in life or at a job there is a lesson to learn. It’s also hillarious how everyone goes through the same Amway experience, those of us who were in it that is. Great learning ground. Thank you for your consistent leadership and insight.

    Josh Boxer

  5. September 14

    Maurice @ 9:40 am

    A bad boss is the best thing that ever happened to me and I wish a bad boss on all my friends and anyone tired of the status quo. A bad boss who makes you sick and tired of forever being sick n tired might just be the catalyst you need to launch into your own destiny.
    Thanks for sharing Perry
    Maurice

  6. September 14

    Judy S. Jones @ 11:05 am

    Hi,

    I had a toxic boss, and because of her I finished Nursing School. So toxic bosses can be good to have if you use there craziness to motiviate you in the right way. Her behavior also strengthen me against all other toxic people I have met since. Toxic people have a difficult time upsetting me, because of my experience with her. I no longer allow toxic people to change me.

  7. September 15

    Phyllis K Twombly @ 3:13 pm

    Toxic bosses were often promoted to district management in my experience. The trick for me was to hang onto staff without letting middle management poison them.

  8. April 19

    Jean @ 2:15 am

    And once you have come out the other side you have much more empathy with people who are still there.

    At one particularly bad job I did find myself writing an article on Top Ten Tips on how not to run a company. It was useful then and it is still useful now!

  9. December 27

    Self Help Trends @ 8:26 am

    Hi Perry,

    Totally agree. I loved what Josh Boxer said, “Through every adversity, there is a lesson to learn”. I feel that through every adversity, lies within it an opportunity to better ourselves. Jobs are definitely not an ideal way to retire with though. I would prefer to build a business that can be passed on to take care of my children in future and leave behind a legacy.

    Kind Regards,
    Edmund Yeo

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